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वाढत्या पगाराबरोबर तुमचे  राहणीमान अधिक खर्चिक होऊ देऊ नका

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माझी पहिली नोकरी पुणे विद्यापीठात होती. विद्यापीठाच्या मागे खडकीत एका स्वस्त हॉस्टेल मध्ये मी १००० रुपये महिना भाडे देऊन राहत असे. विद्यापीठात चालत जात असे. एक वर्ष काम केल्यावर आयटी मध्ये चांगली नोकरी मिळाली म्हणून विद्यापीठ सोडले. जातांना माझे विद्यापीठातील बॉस डॉ. जयंत कीर्तने यांनी एक सल्ला दिला. ते म्हणाले, तुझा पगार तिथे दरवर्षी वाढत जाईल. फक्त त्या वाढत्या पगाराबरोबर तुझे राहणीमान अधिक खर्चिक होऊ देऊ नकोस, मी काय म्हणतोय हे तुला काही वर्षानंतर कळेल. आणि तु माझे आभार मानशील. त्यांच्या शब्दात, “Just don’t upgrade your lifestyle with rising income, you’ll thank me later”.  नंतर अर्थातच मी तो सल्ला शब्दशः पाळला. आणि सरांचे पुनःपुन्हा आभारही मानले.

Parkinson’s Law नावाचा एक नियम आहे. तो नियम सांगतो, आपले खर्च हे आपल्या उत्पनाच्या पटीत वाढत जातात. लोकांचे उत्पन्न कितीही वाढले तरी त्याच पटीत ते खर्च वाढवत नेतात. त्यांचा पहिला पगार फार छोटा असतो, त्यातही ते मस्त जगत असतात. काही वर्षानंतर पगार कैक पटींनी वाढतो. आणि मग तोही पुरेनासा होत जातो. मग त्या पगारातून बचत करणे, गुंतवणूक करणे फार दूरची गोष्ट असते. ज्यांना Parkinson’s Law ला हरवता येतं, ते लवकरच एक विलक्षण स्वातंत्र्य उपभोगायला लागतात.

महिना ५ लाखांपेक्षा अधिक उत्पन्न असलेल्या काही लोकांचेही महिना अखेरीला बचत खाते रिकामे झालेले पाहिलेले आहे. आणि महिना ५० हजार कमावणारेही १०-१५ हजारांची मासिक बचत करतांना पहिले आहेत.

मी शेअर्स गुंतवणुकीच्या निमित्ताने कंपन्यांचे वार्षिक अहवाल (Annual Report) वाचत असतो. माझ्या वाचनातून एक इंटरेस्टिंग गोष्ट कळली, कार, कपडे, चपला-बूट, मोबाईल, दुचाकी या प्रकारच्या वस्तू ज्या काही वर्षानंतर जुन्या होतात त्यांना ग्राहकाने लवकर बदलावे किंवा अपग्रेड करावे यासाठी सुद्धा या कंपन्यांच्या मार्केटिंग आणि सेल्स टीम्स काम करत असतात. उदाहरण द्यायचे झाले तर पायात घालायचे शुज हे पूर्वी सरासरी १२ ते १८ महिने वापरले जायचे आणि मग ते बदलले जायचे. आता तो काळ ८ महिन्यांवर आला आहे. 

मोबाइल कितीही लेटेस्ट घेतला तरी पाच सहा महिन्यात त्याचे दुसरे मॉडेल बाजारात अवतरते आणि तुमचा मोबाइल जुना होऊन जातो. तुम्ही एकदम लेटेस्ट मॉडेलची कार घेता, वर्षाच्या आत त्याच कार चे नवे मॉडेल येते, आणि तुमची कार जुनी वाटू लागते. मग तुम्ही नेक्स्ट अपग्रेड प्लॅन करत राहता. पुढची पगारवाढ, पुढचा बोनस त्यासाठी वापरला जातो.

औद्योगिक क्रांतीने सामान्यांच्या हाती पैसे खेळवले, पण तेच पैसे परत महिन्याच्या महिन्याला श्रीमंतांकडे परत कसे जात राहतील याचीही सोय केली. सामान्यांचे पगार वाढले, मग त्यांच्या घरांचा आकार वाढला, मग कारचा आकार वाढला, मग लाख-दोन लाख किमतीचे फोन दर तीन वर्षांनी बदलण्याची गरज निर्माण झाली, घरातले फर्निचर दर ४-५ वर्षांनी बदलण्याची गरज निर्माण झाली, एका शूज च्या जागी अनेक जोड आले, वॉर्डरोब कपड्यांनी भरले. यादी फार मोठी आहे.

या दुष्ट चक्रातून स्वतःची सुटका करण्यासाठी मुक्त विचार हवे आहेत. आपल्या खांद्यावर आपलेच डोके हवे आहे. मार्केट, सोशल मीडिया, तुमचे सोशल सर्कल तुम्हाला नेहमी पळायला लावत राहील. तुम्ही ठरवायचे आहे. किती पळायचे. आणि हे पळणेही गोल रिंगणात पळणे आहे. शेवटी तुम्ही होता तिथेच पोहोचणार आहात.

शाश्वत संपत्तीनिर्मितीसाठी आवश्यक असलेली पहिली गोष्ट ही की, तुमची जीवनशैली कशी अपग्रेड करायची याचे तारतम्य असणे. तुमची जीवनशैली खूप वेगाने अपग्रेड करू नका. जे लोक त्यांच्या क्षमतेपेक्षा खूप साधे आयुष्य जगू शकतात ते अशा स्वातंत्र्याचा आनंद घेऊ शकतात जे त्यांची जीवनशैली सुधारण्यात व्यस्त आहेत हे समजूच शकत नाही.

फक्त एवढेच करा, एकदा का तुमच्याकडे सर्व बेसिक गरजा पूर्ण करण्यापुरते पैसे आले, आणि त्यानंतर जेव्हा तुमचे उत्पन्न वाढत गेले तरीही तुम्ही तुमच्या जगण्यात बदल न करता आधीसारखे जगायचे आहे, अतिरिक्त उत्पन्न मिळते आहे म्हणून लगेच घर, जीवनशैली आणि स्टेटस सिम्बॉल दाखवणाऱ्या त्या सर्व इतर गोष्टी अपग्रेड करण्याची घाई करू नका. कुठेतरी थांबा.

समजा आज तुम्हाला महिन्याला १ लाख पगार मिळवत आहात. गोष्ट अशी आहे की, जेव्हा तुम्ही अशा उत्पन्नावर पोहोचता, तेव्हा तुम्ही सहसा छोट्या उत्पन्नापासून सुरुवात करता, जसे २५ हजार रुपये महिना आणि मग हळू हळू ते उपन्न वाढत जाते. ही दीर्घकालीन प्रक्रिया आहे. हे घडत असताना, एक प्रॉब्लेम असा होतो की तुम्ही जसे अधिकाधिक पैसे कमावत जाता तसे तुम्ही तुमची जीवनशैली अपग्रेड करत जाता. आणि त्या अपग्रेडिंगलाच तुम्ही संपत्ती समजता आणि हळुवारपणे तुम्ही या चंगळवादी सापळ्यात फसत राहता.

नसीम तालेब म्हणतात, “सर्वात धोकादायक गोष्टी म्हणजे हेरॉईन आणि मासिक पगार.” बरोबर, कारण या गोष्टी खूप व्यसनशील आहेत. थोडक्यात सांगायचे तर संपन्नतेकडे जाण्याचा सुयोग्य मार्ग कुठला तर आधी गरीब बनून जगता येणे. वाढत्या उत्पन्नाबरोबर आपला खर्च  वाढवत नेऊन त्या आर्थिक गुलामगिरीत न फसणे. 

Some new year resolution ideas for a better financial success.

It’s that time of the year when we all look back at the past year, introspect. And prepare for the new year. Technically new year is just a change in the date, but emotionally for many us, it’s a time to make new beginnings, fresh aspirations, and renewed dreams.
Apart from the new year party and celebrations, a very common ritual followed across the world is “New Year Resolutions”. Doesn’t matter, if we stuck to last year resolutions or not, we should resolve afresh every new year. So, here are few new year resolution ideas that may help in re-inventing your financial world. These resolutions may help you in inching towards your financial goals in a better way.

Identify financial goals.

“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.” 
– Albert Einstein

Yes, it’s time to work on your financial goals. Clear and well-articulated goals can give you a sense of purpose. Setting financial goals has great benefits. Be it the next vacation you are planning or the higher education of your children. Articulating your goals will motivate and help you in realizing the real purpose of your savings/investment. So, take time to jot down your goals. Mapping your goals to your investments is a great way of giving meaning to your investments.

Track Spending

If You Can’t Measure It, You Can’t Improve It.
– Peter Drucker

Resolve to record every bit of money that goes out of your pocket. You can write it down in a diary or in a spreadsheet. You may also want to make use of expense manager mobile apps. My favorite is “Expense Manager”. At the end of every month, look back at your expenses. This will give you a clear picture of your spending pattern. You may have an unused magazine/newspaper subscription that you hardly read. Your monthly expense record may give you many ideas to cut back on your spending. In the age of Amazon and online shopping, impulsive buying is a very normal thing. Impulsively we buy many things that we hardly use. Tracking such things down may help you name and shame your bad expenses. Remember, a penny saved is a penny earned.

Budget

If you’re want to gain better control over your spending and begin working towards your financial goals, you need a budget.
With a budget in place, you can prioritize your spending and better manage your money and financial future. The intelligent data you gathered by tracking your expenses can be put to use in allocating your budget. For example, you might get rid of your cable TV connection that you hardly watch and save some bucks. You may start walking to the office if it’s at a walkable distance to cut on monthly fuel costs. Instead of going to eating out every week, you may go every alternate week and save a lot on restaurant costs. Budgeting may not always be about cutting the costs but it’s about rationalizing your spending. You may realize that you are spending far too less on sports and recreational activities and spending too much on fast food and sweets. And you may want to balance the two.

Commit to reading more

Reading good books to get smarter is one of the most sought-after skill today. Many of us want to develop this habit. Reading more leads to better decisions, more rationality, and good financial success. Most of the successful investors are voracious readers. 
I found a very simple and practical trick to tweak myself reading more books and being persistent with the habit.
Start small:
Start reading the small number of pages a day. The definition of small may vary for everyone. I started with ten pages a day. And followed the routine religiously. If you read 10 pages a day, that adds up 300 pages per month. That may equal to one book per month. That may add-up 12 books a year. Try to recall the time you took to finish your last read book. I am sure you will be happy with the rate of reading one book a month. And then try to increase no. of pages per day by few more pages. That will add a few more books per year. This trick worked wonders for me. Though it may seem simple at first, it may give amazing results in the long run.

Be Persistent

Our resolution has no meaning if we don’t persist in pursuing them. Be persistent with them and magic will start happening.

Why should you strive to be Wealthy?

You only have to do a very few things right in your life so long as you don’t do too many things wrong.

— Warren Buffet

We all secretly crave to be wealthy, but shy away from admitting it. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with it. Our society always demeans those who dream of getting rich. There is some sort of stigma attached to the money. In fact, most of us feel that those who become wealthy always do it by exploiting others. Many people turn philosophers when it comes to the topic of wealth creation and they start telling us that “Money is not everything.”

Yes, it may be true that Money is not everything but that should not stop us from realizing our full potential.

Yes, money can’t buy happiness but it can buy many things that bring happiness with them. The most important joy I felt when I started earning was that, now I can buy whichever book I desire. Books are synonyms to happiness to me and money only can buy it for me.

This may apply in many areas of our life. Money can’t buy health, but it can buy healthy food. It can buy medicines when you fall ill. Count the number of cancer survivors and then count their wealth. Those who survive fatal diseases mostly are wealthy and can afford the treatment.

We may all may not become super rich or richest person on the planet, but we can always become what we deserve. It’s very sad sight when we see unrealized careers, when people spend their lives in self-inflicted poverty.

So, at the very first, we need to change our attitude towards money. There is nothing wrong with wanting more money. If we see around us, there is huge ignorance about the money and wealth creation. Let’s call it financial illiteracy. Let’s admit that we all secretly dream of getting wealthy, but do not take concrete steps towards it. That brings us in unending loop of workaholism, consumerism and unsatisfied lives. So many of us do hard work but never get to it. In my honest opinion the answer to all these issues is: “Financial Illiteracy”.

Many of us and now our children get good literacy (Not always education). We are trained to become engineers, doctors, lawyers, professors and we work hard towards it. But what we do wrong is we focus on our core skills only. Yes, those core skills only bring us our daily bread and butter. But what we forget is that daily bread and butter loses its value daily and we don’t even realize it. We are too lost in our core skills that we forget the challenges life brings to us. Evolutionary biologists suggest that ancient humans possessed way more skills than today’s average human beings. He knew around 60 Square KM map of the jungle he’s living (when was the last time you found an address without Google Map?). He knew herbs and medicines to cure many ailments. He even knew self-defense, hunting, cooking and what not. Today we can see highly specialized humans around us who can do only one thing their entire lives, but they ignorantly fail to achieve basic proficiency in any other field.

Similar problem is happening with the financial literacy. It is one of the important problem among us. This problem is leading to self-inflicted poverty. So if you are looking to enhance your skills, keep Financial literacy as your next priority item.

We know how to earn the money but we don’t know how to Protect it, save it, invest It and grow it.

And nothing can be more serious than that!

Yes, Bad things happen to Good people!

We believe that someday or other justice will happen. Majority of the societies believe in justice and make sure that wrongdoers are shown the stick of the law.

In fact, Theory of Karma is one of the most favored subjects in almost all religious teachings.

The question is: “Is there really justice in Nature?”

The term ‘justice’ in human history goes back to Agricultural Revolution. When humans started organizing themselves in mass-cooperation networks to sustain agricultural practices and stopped hunting-gathering, they needed some order. Humans created imagined orders and devised scripts.

The core idea of justice itself went on varying with passing time. In fact, justice for one was adversity for someone else.

Most of the societies claim that their idea of justice is natural and just. However, there are stark differences in society even today that have resulted in the rich-poor divide, race/color/caste supremacy across the world. And humans are finding it painfully difficult to keep up the order.

The real question is: “Is there really justice in Nature?”

There are many unanswered questions that theory of Karma does not answer.

Why do bad things happen to good people?

Why do good things happen to bad people?

What is the fault of a newborn baby in a war-torn country whose life is taken away by bombing?

Why is it so difficult for a poor student to climb the social ladder to live a better life and it’s so easy for a rich kid to buy anything he wishes?

Poor in Africa, India, Bangladesh die of simple diseases like diarrhea and citizens from rich country survive even life threatening diseases like Cancer?

Yes, I know that social justice and order is essential today for society and human existence. However, in our personal lives when we try to understand the meaning of events happening to us, justice and Karma take back-seat. If you believe that Karma will take its own course and bring justice to you then you are wasting your time. Am I being pessimistic by writing this? I don’t think so. I am trying to be a realist.

I find the phrase: “Survival of Fittest” to be more natural than any other theory in this regard.

Yes, there are many interpretations of this theory but in my personal view, I find it an answer to the original question of Justice. Will justice happen to me? Don’t know. But one thing is certain that if I am fit then I will survive. Fit does not always mean strong and survival does not always mean victory.

Then how should I spend rest of my days on this planet that are given to me? My answer is living in the present moment.

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